If you really ever loved me, you wouldn’t need to blame the circumstances for having to break up with me. You could have just told me what’s the problem, and we would have solved it. Together. That’s how easy it is. Or, how it would have been. But you decided that you didn’t want me to be part of your life anymore and just kicked me out like our time together meant nothing to you.
So I think you’re right. It’s not about me. If you aren’t grown-up enough to handle problems in your relationship self dependent, and are too gutless to ask me for support, then yes, YOU are the problem